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So, if you typed this keyword into the search bar, stop looking for the answer outside yourself. And the heat you are looking for? It is already burning in your chest. Let someone use it. That is the whole point. Disclaimer: This article is a work of cultural and literary analysis regarding an internet aesthetic and poetic phrase. It does not endorse non-consensual dynamics in real-world relationships. "Use" in this context refers to consensual, mutualistic intensity, not abuse. "You have me, you use me" says: That is boring