Unfollow social media accounts that make you feel "less than." This includes fitspiration accounts that use before/after photos, as well as "body positive" accounts that still subtly promote weight loss as the ultimate goal. Curate a feed of diverse bodies doing diverse activities.
First, not every disabled or chronically ill person can achieve "optimal" health metrics, and they still deserve wellness—defined as quality of life and reduced suffering. Second, shame does not produce health; it produces weight cycling (yo-yo dieting), which is statistically more damaging to the heart and metabolism than remaining at a stable, higher weight.
Body positivity entered this void not as an excuse for laziness, but as a radical rebellion. It argues that you have the right to exist, eat, and move exactly as you are, right now , without waiting for permission from a thinner future self. One of the most validated findings in behavioral psychology is that shame is a terrible long-term motivator. Dr. Linda Bacon, author of Health at Every Size , has long argued that weight stigma and internalized body shame create physiological stress (cortisol spikes) that actually contribute to metabolic dysregulation.