Do not pressure trans people to "pass" (appear cisgender). LGBTQ culture celebrates breaking norms; celebrate trans people who choose visibility over stealth.
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While many gay and lesbian spaces respect "he/him" or "she/her," they often struggle with non-binary pronouns (they/them, ze/zir). Normalizing pronoun introductions in all LGBTQ settings is a necessary shift. Do not pressure trans people to "pass" (appear cisgender)